"To whom is this happening" Is it happening to a continuous entity? To a body, a mind or some one ?
Who says "This happened to me?" Does the body say so? Or does the mind, or some entity?
The Eternal Light
Believe nothing because a wise man said it;
Believe nothing because it is generally held;
Believe nothing because it is written;
Believe nothing because it is said to be divine;
Believe nothing because somebody else believes it;
Believe only what you yourself judge to be true
- Gautam Buddha